Preparing Women for God’s Purpose before & during Marriage

We Celebrate • We Equip • To Empower • God TransformsJournHe 2 the AltHER™ is a transformational six-month Christian mentorship experience designed to help women grow spiritually, emotionally, mentally, socially, and practically as they prepare for God’s purpose and, if it is His will, for a Christ-centered marriage.
Students then graduate at the GRAND FINALE CHRISTIAN PAGEANT. Not for competion, but for recognition.
Our mission is not simply to help women find husbands.
Our mission is to help women become whole.
“The wedding begins long before the wedding day.”
Marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts.
Yet while countless women spend months planning a beautiful wedding, very few intentionally prepare for the beautiful covenant that follows.
A wedding lasts one day.
A marriage is designed to last a lifetime.
At JournHe 2 the AltHER™, we believe preparation matters.
We believe becoming the right woman is even more important than finding the right man.

from pain to purpose

“I’ve made too many mistakes.”
“I’ve been hurt.”
“I’ve been rejected.”
“I’ve settled for less than God’s best.”
“I’ve struggled with low self-esteem.”
“I’ve trusted the wrong people.”
“I’ve questioned my worth.”
“I’ve wondered if God could ever use someone like me.”
“I’ve prayed for marriage… but maybe God has forgotten about me.”
“Will I ever become the woman God created me to be?”
If you’ve ever whispered any of these words…
You’re not alone.
Perhaps you’ve spent years searching for love…
Searching for acceptance…
Searching for validation…
Searching for your purpose…
Only to discover that the greatest journey you will ever take is not finding the right person…
It’s becoming the woman God created you to be.
The truth is…
A queen is not defined by a crown.
She is defined by her character.
Her faith.
Her purpose.
Her confidence.
Her identity in Jesus Christ.
Every woman has a story.
God is still writing it.

we celebrate you

HOW WE CELEBRATE HERThrough bi-weekly affirmations, intentional recognition, personal encouragement, confidence-building experiences, and opportunities to discover and showcase her gifts, we celebrate every woman’s God-given value, beauty, identity, gifts, growth, and purpose.We celebrate her progress—not perfection.
We celebrate her courage to keep becoming.
We celebrate her gifts and unique qualities.
We celebrate her spiritual growth and transformation.
We celebrate her voice and accomplishments.
We celebrate the woman she is today and the woman God is calling her to become.
Through experiences such as our Crown Ceremony, “I Am Made of HonHER” affirmations, individual encouragement, and the culminating Christian pageant experience, each woman is reminded that she is seen, valued, and worthy of honor.
No matter your past…
No matter your mistakes…
No matter your story…
You are worthy of being celebrated because you are created in the image of God.

we equip you

HOW WE EQUIP YOUTransformation requires more than inspiration.
It requires practical preparation.
Throughout this 6-month JournHe, you’ll receive biblical teaching, practical tools, life skills, mentorship, and meaningful real-world experiences designed to prepare you for healthy relationships, Christian marriage, confident womanhood, and purposeful living.We equip you through experiences such as:Biblical teaching on identity, purity, courtship, marriage, and becoming a godly wife
Q&A conversations with married couples—the questions you really want answered
Virtual Speed Dating in a safe, intentional environment
Social events that strengthen confidence, communication, and interpersonal skills
Practical lessons on communication, conflict resolution, and love languages
Financial preparation and conversations about money in marriage
Personal grooming, presentation, femininity, and confidence-building
Public speaking and pageant-style Q&A to help you find and strengthen your voice
Discussions about emotional awareness, boundaries, healing, and healthy relationship patterns
Opportunities to learn from wives, husbands, divorcees, and relationship professionals
Accountability partners and one-on-one mentorship
Exercises and challenges that move the lessons from the classroom into real life
We don't simply talk about becoming prepared.We give you opportunities to practice what you're learning.Because when opportunity, purpose, love, and marriage arrive, we want you to be more than inspired.WE WANT YOU TO BE EQUIPPED.

we empower you

HOW WE EMPOWER YOUConfidence isn’t pretending to have it all together.
Confidence is knowing WHOSE you are.
At JournHe 2 the AltHER™, we believe an empowered woman knows her identity, understands her value, uses her voice, establishes healthy standards, and has the courage to make decisions that honor God and herself.Through coaching, mentorship, accountability, encouragement, and intentional opportunities to step outside your comfort zone, you’ll develop greater:Confidence and self-worth
Emotional maturity and self-awareness
Leadership and decision-making skills
Communication and conflict-resolution skills
Healthy boundaries and relationship standards
Courage to use your voice
Discernment in dating and relationships
Confidence in presenting yourself with grace and purpose
Understanding of your God-given identity, gifts, and calling
You’ll be challenged to speak up, show up, make decisions, establish boundaries, communicate clearly, and confidently represent the woman God created you to be.We don't empower you by telling you who to become.We help you discover who God says you already are—and give you the support and confidence to WALK IN IT.WE WANT YOU TO BE EMPOWERED.

God transforms

HOW DOES GOD TRANSFORM YOU?We WILL celebrate you.
We WILL equip you.
We WILL empower you.
But only GOD WILL transform you.
Transformation happens when you surrender your heart, your past, your plans, your relationships, your wounds, and your future to God—and allow Him to do the work within you.Throughout this 6-month JournHe, you’ll be encouraged to deepen your relationship with God through prayer, Scripture, worship, reflection, accountability, and intentional spiritual growth.God transforms you as you:Renew your mind with His Word
Discover your identity in Christ
Surrender unhealthy patterns, habits, and relationships
Allow Him to bring healing to wounded places
Replace lies you have believed with God’s truth
Develop greater wisdom and spiritual discernment
Learn to forgive, release, and move forward
Grow in faith, obedience, character, and purpose
Become more intentional about the woman you are becoming
Learn to seek God’s will above your own
Transformation does not mean becoming perfect.It means allowing God to continually renew your mind, reshape your character, redirect your choices, and align your life with His purpose.Our goal isn't simply for you to finish JournHe 2 the AltHER™ with more information.Our prayer is that you leave knowing God more deeply, seeing yourself differently, making healthier choices, and walking boldly in the identity and purpose He has given you.WE CREATE THE SPACE.
YOU SURRENDER TO THE PROCESS.
GOD DOES THE TRANSFORMING.
“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2

What you will experience

The Journhe

A Safe Place to Become
Healing requires honesty.
Growth requires vulnerability.
Transformation requires community.
JournHe 2 the AltHER™ was intentionally created to be more than a classroom.
It is a safe place.
A place where masks come off.
A place where walls come down.
A place where tears are welcomed.
A place where laughter is contagious.
A place where prayer is powerful.
A place where women encourage women.
A place where healing begins.
Here…
We get personal.
We get transparent.
We pray together.
We learn together.
We laugh together.
We cry together.
We celebrate together.
We grow together.
There is no pretending.
There is no comparison.
There is no condemnation.
Only grace.
Growth.
Hope.
And sisterhood.
To foster meaningful relationships, each mentorship cohort is intentionally limited to 10 women or fewer, creating an environment where every participant is seen, heard, encouraged, and supported.
Because your journey was never meant to be walked alone.

The JournHE Continues

Beyond the Classroom
One of the most beautiful aspects of JournHe 2 the AltHER™ is that the mentorship doesn’t end when the six months are over.
It continues.
Because transformation is not an event.
It is a lifestyle.
When you become part of the JournHe family, you become part of a growing community of women who continue encouraging one another long after graduation.
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💎 Continued Coaching Opportunities
Life doesn’t stop after the program ends.
New seasons bring new questions.
New opportunities.
New challenges.
Graduates may continue receiving coaching and mentorship as they navigate dating, engagement, marriage, ministry, career, motherhood, and other significant life transitions.
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💎 The JournHe 2 the AltHER™ Alumni Community
Graduation is not goodbye.
It is a welcome into an ongoing sisterhood.
As a graduate, you’ll become part of the JournHe 2 the AltHER™ Alumni Community—a network of women committed to encouraging one another, praying together, celebrating milestones, and continuing to grow in Christ.
Whether it’s your wedding day…
The birth of a child…
A career milestone…
Or simply a difficult season…
Your sisters will still be there.
Because sisterhood doesn’t end at graduation.
It continues for a lifetime.
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Grand Finale Christian Pageant

More Than a Pageant…
A Celebration of Transformation
After six months of
Prayer…
Growth…
Learning…
Healing…
Laughter…
Tears…
Breakthroughs…
And countless moments of God’s faithfulness…
Comes an unforgettable evening.
The JournHe 2 the AltHER™ Christian Pageant is not the finish line.
It is a celebration.
A celebration of every prayer that was answered.
Every fear that was overcome.
Every tear that became a testimony.
Every lesson that strengthened character.
Every step that brought a woman closer to Christ.
Family members and friends gather to witness something beautiful.
Not perfection.
Transformation.
Throughout the evening, participants share their growth through elegant presentations, thoughtful interviews, personal reflections, and inspiring testimonies.
They stand before their loved ones with greater confidence.
Greater faith.
Greater purpose.
Not because they have arrived…
But because they chose to begin.
Every participant is honored because every participant has chosen to invest in becoming a godly woman of purpose.
There are no comparisons.
No measuring worth against another woman.
No competing for value.
Because in the Kingdom of God…
Every transformed life is worth celebrating.
The evening concludes with joy, gratitude, worship, and celebration as each woman is recognized for her commitment to becoming all God has called her to be.

The Experience

At JournHe 2 the AltHER™
We believe that lasting transformation happens when biblical truth is combined with intentional experiences.
This is not a program where you simply sit, listen, and leave.
This is a mentorship where you actively grow.
Every gathering has been thoughtfully designed to help you become the woman God created you to be while preparing you for healthy relationships, purposeful living, and, if it is God’s will, a Christ-centered marriage.Throughout this six-month journey, you’ll participate in meaningful experiences that encourage both personal and spiritual growth.
💎 Biblical Mentorship
💎 One-on-One Coaching with Dr. Cindel💎 Christian Sisterhood
Transformation flourishes in healthy community.
💎 Private Group Chats💎 Accountability Partnerships💎 Conversations That Matter
These may include:
💎 Healthy Christian married couples
💎 Licensed clinical psychologists
💎 Christian leaders
💎 Divorced men and women sharing lessons learned
💎 Financial professionals
💎 Ministry leaders
💎 Women whose lives reflect faith, resilience, and purpose
Each conversation is designed to help participants gain wisdom, avoid unnecessary pitfalls, and embrace God’s best for their future.
💎 Practical Life Experiences & unforgettable memories may include:
• Christian Speed Dating Events
• The “Date Yourself” Experience
• Ring Sizing & Bridal Shopping Experience
• Communication Workshops
• Etiquette & Social Confidence Training
• Personal Image & Professional Presence
• Bible Study & Prayer
• Worship Experiences
• Journaling & Reflection
• Community Outreach & Service Projects
Every activity has one purpose…
Helping you become.

your journhe begins now

Every extraordinary journey begins with one courageous decision.
Not the decision to become perfect.
But the decision to become available.
Available for God to heal.
To restore.
To teach.
To strengthen.
To prepare.
Maybe that’s why you’re here.
Maybe this isn’t just another website.
Maybe this is an answer to a prayer you’ve been praying for years.
If your heart has been whispering…
“Lord…there has to be more.”
Perhaps this is your invitation.
Not simply to join a mentorship.
But to begin becoming.
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When You First Arrived Here…
You may have asked yourself…
WHO… ME?
A QUEEN?
After reading this page…
Our prayer is that your answer is no longer filled with doubt.
Instead, may you boldly declare…
Yes… me.
A Daughter of the King.
Not because of a title.
Not because of a crown.
Not because of a relationship.
But because your identity has always been found in Jesus Christ.
May you leave this journey…
Confident.
Whole.
Transformed.

Meet the founder

Meet Dr. Cindel, DNP, FNP-BC
Founder, JournHe 2 the AltHER™ | First Lady | Speaker | Christian Mentor | Family Nurse Practitioner |Author
With 13+ years of caring for patients at the bedside as a Registered Nurse, Cindel is a Doctor of Nursing Practice (DNP)-prepared Family Nurse Practitioner, First Lady, speaker, author, Christian mentor, and founder of JournHe 2 the AltHER™, a transformational mentorship movement that equips women to become whole in Christ before saying, “I do.”
Serving alongside her husband in ministry, Dr. Cindel is committed to helping women discover their God-given identity, experience emotional and spiritual healing, and prepare for healthy, Christ-centered marriages. She believes that while many women spend months preparing for a wedding, far too few intentionally prepare for marriage. Through biblical discipleship, practical coaching, and authentic mentorship, she empowers women to become the wives, leaders, and daughters of God they were created to be.
Her own testimony is one of remarkable transformation. Having journeyed from brokenness, insecurity, and misplaced identity to confidence and freedom in Christ, she understands firsthand the power of God’s redeeming grace. Today, she uses that testimony to inspire women to exchange shame for purpose, fear for faith, and pain for God’s promises.
In addition to her ministry work, Dr. Cindel is a healthcare professional with a passion for whole-person wellness, recognizing that true healing encompasses the body, mind, and spirit. She is also the founder of the Fashionably Saved Foundation, through which she develops faith-based initiatives that strengthen individuals, families, and communities.
Whether speaking from the platform, mentoring women one-on-one, or leading transformational programs, Dr. Cindel’s mission remains the same: to see women healed, equipped, empowered, and confidently walking in the identity God has called them to embrace.
Unlike many personal development programs, JournHe 2 the AltHER™ is rooted in lived experience. Every lesson reflects principles that Dr. Cindel has personally wrestled with, learned from, and applied throughout her own journey of healing and restoration, which is also detailed in her book Dare 2 D*zIGHER.
Dr. Cindel’s Personal Statement
“I don’t stand before women because I have a perfect story. I stand before them because I have a redeemed one. My greatest credential isn’t the doctorate after my name—it’s the transformation God accomplished in my life. If He could do it for me, He can do it for you.”
Daughter of King Jesus
Cindel Pluviose
P.S. Her life and ministry are built upon one simple truth:
“Who… me? A Queen?”
Yes. A daughter of the King—redeemed, restored, equipped, and called for such a time as this.

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